Stoic quotes on fear
Most of what we fear never happens, and what does happen is rarely as bad as we imagined. Seneca’s advice is to meet the present on its own terms and stop suffering in advance.
There are more things, Lucilius, likely to frighten us than there are to crush us; we suffer more often in imagination than in reality.
· Letters 13.4Read passage We are in the habit of exaggerating, or imagining, or anticipating, sorrow.
· Letters 13.5Read passage What tortures us, therefore, is an idea. Now every evil is just as great as we consider it to be: we have, therefore, the remedy in our own hands.
· Consolation to Marcia 19Read passage As a result, because of our lack of practice, we are ever going out of our way to heap up terrors and to make them out greater than they actually are.
· Discourses 2.16Read passage Let not future things disturb thee, for thou wilt come to them, if it shall be necessary, having with thee the same reason which now thou usest for present things.
· Meditations 7.8Read passage There is nothing more wretched than worry over the outcome of future events…
· Letters 101.8Read passage For he only is anxious about the future, to whom the present is unprofitable.
· Letters 101.9Read passage I find in the writings of our Hecato that the limiting of desires helps also to cure fears: ‘Cease to hope,’ he says, ‘and you will cease to fear.’
· Letters 5.7Read passage Why are you looking about for troubles which may perhaps come your way, but which may indeed not come your way at all?
· Letters 103.1Read passage …by looking forward to the coming of our sorrows we take the sting out of them when they come.
· Consolation to Marcia 9Read passage In the next place remember that neither the future nor the past pains thee, but only the present.
· Meditations 8.36Read passage Our minds should be sent forward in advance to meet all problems, and we should consider, not what is wont to happen, but what can happen.
· Letters 91.4Read passage
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